That "optional" piece is intended to be used when you use *both* a fuel return line and a fuel pressure gauge. If you don't have a mechanical fuel gauge, then you don't need that optional part. If you have a fuel pressure gauge and the optional part is used, you would not use parts #6, 7, 9 of the standard assembly. Instead, you use the restrictor that is located in the one end of the "T" of that optional part.
"Must" you install the return line? Legally it depends on what rules you must follow. If you aircraft is certificated in such a way, where following Rotax's instructions is mandatory, then you do need to install it. If your aircraft is not required to follow Rotax's instructions, then I suppose you don't need it. I personally think it's a good idea to have the fuel return line in the system.
The bottom line is that if you do have the fuel return line, that line must have the restrictor in it.
Yes, I agree that sometimes their words are hard to understand. That manual is written by people who's first language is not English.
The fuel return line's purpose is to prevent vapour lock, by simply keeping a small amount of fuel always moving thru the system. The restrictor's job is to prevent the fuel pressure in the system from getting too low, while still allowing a small amount of fuel to pass thru the system, and be returned back to the fuel tank. Without the restrictor, fuel would flow at max rate, which might be too much for the fuel pump to handle. This would be similar to turning on your garden hose. Unrestricted, water gushes out of the hose, and the water pressure inside the hose is not very high. Now, place your thumb over the hose. Water still flows, but you have reduced the amount of water that flows, and you've raised the pressure inside the hose.